Friday, November 16, 2018

Turks week 2 couple


The kids left and was honestly a really good week . So relaxing and just chilling with us
Felt very odd though not to have bear with us !
With Cassie however they were still three though so didn’t notice it as much


As soon as everyone left we were very eager to FaceTime bear ( only did one short time with kids as felt like was mean to him to see us all having fun on vacation without him )

So Sunday night at sunset on beach we FaceTime a ans him and Sandrine were having a romantic weekend at cottage so not sure how much he missed us ! Was so cute to see them sending pics of fancy dinners they made together ( salmon tartar and Brie ) and cuddled near the fire trying to delay their Sunday night departure as much as possible

I love that our kids seem to also have the cottage bug ( especially when we are not there ! ) and love the coziness and nature of it all . They spent a good part of day hiking up the ski mountain and back down .jacuzzi , watching movies , studying . A cute couple for sure .


Here in Turks we are still sick and Hubby lung infection and 2 eye infections . Now 3 days before going home although both lots of meds and horrible cough still ( for me has been 21 days !! ) we at least function ans have some energy

We love love love it here . Could easily live here . Love the pace of our days and reading and sleeping and watching movies and snuggling up ( when we are not coughing all over each other )
So nice to take a break from the crazy 8 month marathon of work we have just been though
And realizing that it did not serve us well to do that to our lives and bodies clearly . Not something I would do again to work every night and every weekend . That is for sure . This new career better provide us the balance we need and have demanded and fought for all our lives

I have spent a good part of my vacay thinking and planning out stage 2 ( the marketing stage ) and feeling good about things . I needed a step back for a few weeks after launch to just breathe and let it all settle in and now ready to get to work again


Although feel cheated to be on vacay so sick and with hubby now ever sicker as hard to fully enjoy like this - I feel blessed too . So blessed that we have each other , are still very much in love and life partners after 22 yrs of marrriage - and that our kids are old enough now to largely take care of themselves while we are away ( my mom is there about 4 nights making meals and keeping them company and driving beauty places but such a different ballgame than before leaving older teens than kids or younger teens )

I feel blessed we can Afford this beautiful vacation and have endless opportunities before us to work hard and create ans market and do this again year after year I am hoping
It’s like home to us and we adore it with our heart and souls


I love the disconnecting of it all too . Love it
Besides checking my email and texts for 24 hrs mid week and social media and then having a text chat with savvy last night and a couple of very few and far between texts with kids about logistics we take a total mental break and give our kids ones too

It refuels us in a way you cannot understand unless you have ever tried disconnecting before ( and have a very demanding career where you are connected to your phone all day long and need the break


Turks 2018 with Beauty Cassie and Chase!


Just ending the first week of Turks with three teens !
Beginning our second week as a couple

We invited beauty and Cassie to come for first week at the condo ( as both boys had school and girls as week off )and two weeks before we left chase said could come as only two classes . Yay !

Sadly bear could not come as in mid terms and we missed him . Beauty and chase especially sang his praises many times during the vacation ( both saying they wished was him instead of each other that was on trip !! )

We were initially a little scared to share with three teens this downtime as had such a crazy work year all we could imagine doing was sleeping for 2 weeks . That being said we quickly realized that being with these three was actually very relaxing

This age is awesome as we all just like pretty much doing the same thing all the time : namely relaxing on beach , eating , swimming , reading . Going out to lunch or dinner . All 5 on the same rythm especially that with us both sick we were not needing a lot of activity going on
One thing that has to be said : Hubby and I are sick as dogs :((( like the worst broncitis have ever had that just won’t go away . I was sick 10 days straight before coming here and finally felt a little better and came back full on when arrived here . Hubby slightly sick as arrived here and two days in got so so sk sick again and tomorrow will have to go to a medical clinic to see if pneumonia . So this has been hard and trying not to let it ruin anything for the kids so laying low but both coughing all day and all night every moment , fall asleep anywhere and everywhere , can barely hold a conversation as too much energy . You get the picture . Sick sick sick

Dépite that however we are having an amazing time . No way are we spending this kind of money and staying only in bed .

Our routine with the kids

Get up around 9am
All out to beach by about 10:45 or 11am
All relax all day
Go in ocean many times a day
Make lunch or dinner at condo every day and out the other meal
Have long loud meals outside in screened in porch with lots of laughs

Watch sunsets everyday on beach and come into condo at 6:30

Have relaxed dinners in or out and lots of laughs
Fall asleep with doors open of condo and hearing the ocean steps away from our bed


Highlights :

The speed bumps !!!!
The swirves to scare us !!

Hubby getting mad and taking Cassie ans beauty phones away ans Cassie being shocked

Chase telling us that he has no more iCloud space because he has saved every single message from his mom and dad since 12yrs old and refuses to erase them for sentimental reasons :))

Beauty is really tan for first time of her life !!

Cassie’s laugh on speed bumps

The girls taking 750 sexy fake photos of themselves every day

The girls looking for likes on those 750 photographs a day


Chase falling asleep on the beach all the time and especially right at sunset

Cards in the screened in porch

The excursion was amazing and me being called mama by long eyelash black guy

Realizing beauty will very likely be marrying a black guy

Cooking crew and cleanup crew after meals

Beauty lining snorkelling finally

ChAse always keeping us entertained and laughing

Frozen yogurt out

Guessing the prices of meals ans groceries and it always being twice as expensive as we hoped

Not wasting any morsel of food ever

Hubby showing his white bum

The girls camera faces

Me reading half a book in a hour

Massages on the beach for Halloween


Coughing coughing coughing and more coughing . Lots of peeing pants

The girls dressing like twins

The girls dressing in very scarce clothing and no energy to care

Reading my teen books and going on archaeological digs in their brains

Chase talking to us about his future on the beach and asking our input and really working as a trio team

Water slides and diving board on the boat

Not being able to
Believe that in a few months our daughters perfect body is going to be surgically altered


Me and hubby being so high on meds we could not snorkel and were super sea sick and getting back on boat wanting to throw up ( we are both mermaids usually )


The card game night of no laughter


Fancy night out at bace on the beautiful pier


Stand up paddle and seeing jojo the dolphin


Frozen yogurt with candies


Walking the doggies gin and fleury . Realizing not necessarily dog people


Being treated like queens and kings at the palms


Eating in the pool


My first vlog . A total fail

FaceTiming bear ans breaking the code

Not being connected on email or social media


Chase arriving on beach when I was napping and my heart being so full of love


Me realizing some ( very scarce ) advantages of being so sick on vacation :

Me being silent and shutting up is a huge advantage for me family
Me not tasting I eat less sugar
Me peeing all my clothes coughing I don’t care to take pics to annoy people less
Me having to energy to think makes me very much in the simple present

Me bs hubby both being so sick we have zero expectations of each other for cuddles conversations or living . Very equal partnership !

Even thought beauty can be ( really ) challenging which can make day(s) hard .- I saw a new side emerge of her this holiday . An older version of herself and more communicative ( and rebellious ! ) and coming into her own . She is one tough cookie to raise and each day I manage to do it with grace I pat myself on the back

Hubbys star parenting moment

The condo is so awesome
The beach is so beautiful
Bringing frozen Costco meals smartest thing ever done
Us all cooking and cleaning together

Realizing how fun this kind of holiday would be as a family on a condo on the beach with all three of our kids and planning it out

seeing some good bonding going on with chase and beauty which I am thankful for

Realizing how much all kids really value our advice at this stage of their lives which feels like a gift in so many ways and proud of this


Realizing how messy and complicated and awesome and wonderful having older teens is . How crazy hard and how relaxing and amazing it truly is . It’s a true paradox raising kids this age