Tuesday, May 16, 2017

A Really Special Mothers Day



Last year was a bit of a mess  ( a lot !!! ) on Mother's Day and I wrote about it on my blog . I had my mom up at cottage and in the morning the kids were just really not attentive to the specialness of the occasion and very dismissive .  It was extremely rude and hurtful as my mom and I always put so much emphasis on their special occasions .My mom and I were insulted and walked out of the house angry and went out for breakfast the two of us ! We came back to a big apology sign on the door and many tears - but it upset us a lot . And those kids learned a lesson I assure you !!!!

This Mother's Day was the complete opposite . Like by far the nicest one I ever had .
Beautiful cards from each that took time to make and attention with beautiful heartfelt messages . Each kid gave me a wonderful gift that was so carefully chosen and Beauty made me a playlist too and wrote out all the songs by hand for my moods of the day . Was so extremely sweet !

And then my card from hubby had a bike on it and told me to go to garage and he bought me an electric bike !  I am thrilled as the plan this season is to do some major kayaking and biking but my issue is biking up hills so always makes me say no to the trails . This way I can use as a normal excercise bike most the time but with the hills use there motor . I am super excited and had asked for this but didn't think I would get it and so happy I did !

And a beautiful book of all the things they love about me that the three kids filled in . I bought that one for myself . Reading the things they said though was extremely fun . I gave the same book to my mom . Made us both feel good to be celebrated like that and love for us articulated . Made it feel all worth it 

We went for a walk at the lake my mom and I while the rest cooked us dinner . Delicious and such a long and relaxing evening too . Love those kind of slow and relaxed nights .

And this weekend went with hubby two of us for a short overnight at cottage . Stopped for lunch , shopped for shoes, watched a great movie , had a quiet dinner , walked in the rain with lunch out again and read . Romantic and fun and just what we needed after weeks of not being at our fave part of the world : TRENT . It rained all weekend but I truly could not care less - weather does not matter anymore as long as I am at that cottage !

Was a perfect Mother's Day and so happy our kids learnt to underline the occasion in that special way . I even got texts from their friends and girlffiend and boyfriend . It was really really special .

Happy Mother's Day to all the moms in the world . Those with kids , those who nurture other people's kids , those who are moms to be , Daughters of moms and everyone else who has mom qualities