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Texting relationships with my kids BFF’s. This
always puts a HUGE smile on my face when they reach out to me by text or
welcome me reaching out them,. Whether that is for planning something
logistical that is happening (as often they are better planners than my own
kids!) ..Or for just talking about big events in their or my own kids’ lives,
or just wishing them a good trip or happy birthday, or sometimes just to say hi
and how’s it going. Having that joint person we care about (my kid/their BFF)
is so so bonding.
It enriches my life so much. And they often
sign off with such sweet things like “thanks
for being my 2nd mom” and stuff like that that makes my heart just melt. My
life is so much better because of these amazing BFF’s. The kids are so blessed to have them. As they
get older they all mature too and gives me a glimpse of what adult kids would
be like. Daughter in laws and son in laws too and how important these
relationships will be in my life.
My kids are package deals-they always have
been. They come with their families. And watch out as their parents are sure to
love you.
If I am not invited to their weddings there
will be hell to rise! At this rate I think I may even be paying for their
weddingsJ))
2-Helping friends that reach out to me.
Helping them through obstacles and things they need a listening ear for.
Helping them find a way that makes them happy. Especially when it involves
their families and kids. I love helping friends who reach out to me. I feel it
is the highest honor privilege as a human being to serve those you love.
I love helping people I love find peace
And when friends help me out it feels
like………such a relief and comfort. It makes me feel complete. I have gotten so much
better at asking for help in the last two years. Even professionally too I simply
ask for help from those who I know respect my work. It is so liberating to just
ask for what you need.
