Sunday, September 14, 2014

Sleepy Cities

From my window in hotel:)


I love reading sister savvy (aka Gritty) posts when she travels and she talks about "Sleepy Cities " and the sun rising and how beautiful it is when you see this in a new place. Problem is that I can never get up that early !! By the time I am somewhere where a bit of downtime and relaxation is offered to me .. I somehow always choose to sleep longer .

And when on business trips ... The agenda is packed with breakfast meetings and early days . No time for sunrise!

However today I got to see a sleepy city and it was worth every moment of lost sleep .
My hotel in Miami is on a lagoon and my room looks out to the pool and lagoon. Gorgeous !!! Seriously !
Not only did I take it and see it .. I went down for a swim in it . I am so proud of myself that I can accomplish all of this and be ready for the day by  7:30 am

And after a very hectic and intensive day today which I had a headache a good part of ... I took a book and went down to the pool and cuddled up on a sofa and read. And it rained and rained on me so I moved over to another sofa under beautiful trees and it was so cozy. I adore warm rain (I detest cold rain ) I read my fiction book and almost fell asleep . They took an hour and met 3 girls form Holland and had some laughs. One had a tremendous stutter and at first felt so bad for her but by the end.. Just thought she was so beautiful and also brave.
And now tonight a quiet evening compared to the other two I had and in hotel in my pjs and ordered room service

Business travel can be great. And the older my kids get the more I like it . It has definite perks (beautiful hotels and places  ... Great free food  ... Room service  ...Pools etc ) but anyone who does it also know it is very hard too .
12-15 hrs days often. Breaks and lunches always with teams so very little alone time . Hard on personal schedule.. Packing and unpacking.. Affects weekends and family time big time

But overall ... I like it . More and more . And one day in more than 5 yrs I intend to have a career where I travel even  more and can take my hubby or a kid or my mom or a friend with me sometimes. It's a great way to see the world. I need to start working on my 5-10 yr. plan

But for now and until now, I have had no time to make the best use of busy business trips. No time to be able to tack on a weekend or take a vacation day. No energy to get up for sleepy cities early morning when all my energy has gone into simply surviving!! I have found that this is one of the first business trips ever where I feel freer and not as weighted down. Not in touch with the kids as much and not worrying. I know the fort is being well held down and everyone is content. My husband is texting them and driving them and attending all the school meetings and my mom is making healthy fish for dinner.

I feel like I can muster a little energy for those sleepy sunrises now and then

I have travelled with this company to many places. Switzerland many times... Portugal.. Mexico.. New York ... France ... Miami.. Boston ...
Many many many lovely offistes weeks in our own Montreal. But this one is the first one where I truly feel like I have space to appreciate the opportunity

In the course I am here for I am getting a certification to give one of the most complex workshops on High Performing teams there are. I am surrounded by my Latin American happy and friendly and loving colleagues here. I have honestly been touched and hugged and kissed as much by men and woman alike as I have in the last few days as I have in my lifetime ! Such a beautiful culture

And I sit here tonight with my portabello burger and beet and goat cheese salad and deep dish apple Carmel pie with cinnamon ice cream ( I tend to taste test a bit when I am not paying !) .. And realize how good my life is And how well I have run it I have been a great CEO of my life I feel proud that .I roll With the punches and orchestrate this life of mine with such precision and I am feeling the payoffs here in Miami.

And I am looking forward to its next chapter. And every day I feel more and more ready to be sitting at the head table . Now I am grooming myself to be ready ... For what I am really made to in this world.

“When the time is right”….  This motto  will always remain at the top of my list.