Thursday, November 06, 2014

We love vacation




 

Whenever a vacation comes around –always follows the same pattern. Takes a day or two to get into it….and then a couple of days before it is over….you just pray it will not end.

Vacation is so much better than reality in so many ways.

Take for instance the kid’s room. They have a full minibar of soda and they just keep drinking soft drinks and ordering room service pizza. I also dared enter their bathroom today..OMG..what a mess. A hazard actually.

Different from reality??? Just a bit?

Again tonight at dinner we just laughed and laughed and laughed. At everything. I love these people so much. I never imagined life with teens would be this fun.

I woke up this morning feeling like shit. But Hubby was better! And so was Beauty! I wondered how I would make it through the day with dolphin excursions with Beauty. But I did it….and had a super time. When got back slept for an hour and almost did not make it to dinner as felt like a bus ran over me..But forced myself and felt ok.

Dolphin excursion was great-we laughed a lot and it poured and poured rain on our heads and we almost slipped and fell into the shark pit! Lol! Then we saw a parrot show and a sea lion show. Beauty had a great 21 yr. old guy totally smitten with her all day. He had Down Syndrome and was the sweetest guy ever. She felt so special to be flirted with all day..Was so adorable. And her first kiss too! By Venus the dolphin!!! Hahah

The boys did some dirt buggy thing and talked about penises all day apparently. They came home full of mud and sewage and Bear was depressed as he did not pass for 18 yrs. so could not drive one alone. I am too tired to write about their guy excursion…sorry!

Beauty and I sneaked her into the spa tonight on way back. Was cold and pouring rain and so we jumped into the hot tub and then told scary stories under to the towels on the huge bali bed and tried to hide her as she is not 18 either!

Despite all the talk of rain.. it actually is still pouring and storming now like crazy…but the timing was good today for these crappy downpours. We spend 9:30-2:00pm in the beautiful hot sunshine an as soon as left for excursions all hell broke loose. We were fine with that. Got our sun in!!! This morning was beach, pool, ocean, pool, ocean pool, floater, drink, floater, pool. Hamburger on the run, ocean, lemonade, pool.Ocean. Bear played volleyball for hours and then Chase and Bear basketball in the pool. Ahh..Love vacation life.

I know these vacation blogs must be sooooooo boring to read. But they won’t be boring for me to read one day…and remember.

There is nothing like the gift of time …some times on this vacation I have thoughts or worries or work that go through my head and I juts literally push them out and away. There is plenty of times for those in my real life.

For now I am happy being with my family and enjoying the sun and rain here. Feeling free and happy…since that is what peaceful people feel like..no matter what is happening around them or to them.

Peace is a state of mind…and I am enjoying trying it out on myself for fit.

Tomorrow our last full day and will write my best (and worst) moments of the vacation. I like looking back..And always remembering that even though vacation time  can also be hard. Hard to leave work, hard to pack, hard to pay back the money on the line of credit, hard to leave …it is always always worth it.

An investment into our family every single time.

An emotional deposit every single step of the way.